22 Years of The Presence The houses were built during the Civil War...there were two that were slaves quarters but much more upscale than the cabins that I read about in most books. My husband and I moved there (it was a second marriage for both) in the late summer/early fall. We had disagreements and often got rather verbal...when suddenly there was a presence that came over both of us...then a pleasant smell unlike any other (we have been to Hawaii and I know how pleasurable Fragrapanie is...but it was better yet). Then a calm, sereeness would encompass both of us and the argument would dissipate. We didn't discuss what we felt. Then a short time later, we visited the neighbor...we were in the kitchen and quite suddenly I saw a man in a white shirt...race by....he was hardly visible. Ruth, the neighbor asked what I was looking at and I told her. She stated that she had seen that severalties but did not think that it was real. We later discovered that in the neighbor's house a man had fallen down the step and broke his neck....was this the man in the white shirt? To this day no one can tell my husband and me what the presence was when we argued. Even now....22 years later this presence shows up when we are in a heated argument. What is the connection? I do not know. To add to this...one day I was looking out the front window of the house we lived in...and just at clear as you can imagine...I saw myself in an old fashioned dress...it look white in color...I was waiting for someone to arrive. I was pacing and before long...he came up...galloping on a horse.